We met a fellow named John Wannamaker, himself a prison survivor at the 8th Annual International Prisoner's Family Conference. He works now as a motivational speaker, who uses his story to highlight the injustices brought about by mass incarceration and to incite positive change within individuals. He has written a book called The Voice From Inside that tells of his own struggles as he navigated federal prison and turns a transparent lens on the federal prison system to examine its injustices and political structure. We plan to read it as soon as we can get our hands on it (somehow we walked out of the conference without it!). We were so impressed with John and really look forward to working with him in the future. Below is the link to his book.
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This incredible organization was founded to remove the stigma associated with having a loved one in jail or prison. It has accomplished this by building a network across the country that offers support, guidance, tools, and experience to those struggling with “doing time on the outside.”
We listened as Ro and Jo walked us through some of the common situations faced by family members of those who are incarcerated. They offered honest insight into their own personal struggles and followed those up with suggestions on how to reframe each situation in a more positive way. They too love life plans, so as we worked through their scenario based presentation, we were each also asked to contemplate our own path forward. Strong Prison Wives and Families already offers many resources for wives of those incarcerated; they have a growing community of husbands, moms, dads, sisters, and brothers too! Click on their site above to check out their programs. Real Change: Constructive, Positive Solutions from the Heart (and the danger in otherizing)5/8/2016 Where to start? Jonathon and Kirstin attended the Eighth Annual International Prisoner's Family Conference in Dallas, Texas last week, and we were blown away by the caliber of the presentations, the passion woven throughout every interaction, and the kindness that abounded. We met folks from the UK, Wales, New Zealand, Argentina, Uganda, Illinois, Georgia, Washington, DC, Ohio, California, Texas and so many other places. This conference filled our minds, our hearts, and our cups - and we came back ready to share! No surprise that attending this conference will become an annual ATLaS tradition, and we hope to take a much larger group next year.
One of the most heartening aspects of the conference was its laser-like focus on constructive discussions - not in a "polyanna" sort of way, but in a "there are people suffering now, let's do, not just talk" way. Don't get us wrong; the academics behind the presentations were strong, the thoughts deep and complete, the research statistically significant and peer-reviewed - but they were accompanied by both calls to action and actual action. We all agree that mass incarceration, the punitive correctional model, police brutality, political corruption, racism, sexism, etc. are terrible. But the difference at this conference is that rather than leaving the discussions of these woes in the ivory tower, these folks are out in their communities doing something about them. They are dedicating their lives to acting now in constructive, positive, and loving ways, and in doing so they are disrupting the balance of power that allows the corruption, dehumanization, brutality at the heart of the system. They are creating the example that other systems, states, countries, and communities can follow - drafting the blueprint, or as we like to say mapping the path forward. This conference is about the faces behind the statistics, about the families feeling the pain now, and about their solutions for positive change. What we came away understanding is that the most important weapon against mass incarceration is maintaining a positive outlook. The minute we "otherize" corrections officers, police officers, politicians - we become them, we become everything we rail against. Nothing constructive ever comes from shame; when you shame those you seek to change, they stop hearing you. By uniting together to build communities, to see each other as humans caught - together - in a nasty web of dehumanizing corporate greed, to find those officers who have strong enough hearts to force change in their organizations - by doing these things, we begin to seed real change. And folks, what we heard about at this conference was real change. We are going to write individual posts about the amazing resources we discovered. But, we wanted to take the time to acknowledge just how important it is not to lose sight of the power of positive connection and the power of acknowledging the humanity in those who sit opposite you, who disagree with you, even in your enemies. And this conference served as a reminder of that in maybe the most beautiful way - by seating all of us at the same table, together. For an incredible talk on the danger of "otherizing," we recommend Elizabeth Lesser's TED Talk "Take the 'Other' to Lunch." |
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